After years of marriage and living together its fine that the pleasure you derive from having sex diminishes. The same routine of getting into bed and blah blah can actually be a put off because nothing of it remains exciting. All this can turn you off and may be you would like to avoid having sex which in turn could create other problems in the relationship. Before all of this actually takes place you must address the issue as a happy sex life means the bonding remains as strong as ever. In such a situation you might want to consider the use of sex toys to recreate the magic and spark. It could happen that your partner would not take to the use of sex toys easily so its better you discuss that this is your idea to rekindle sex. Also on her/his birthday or an anniversary you can probably gift a sex toys and it could work wonders for your sex life.
If you have never before used a sex toys then you might consider visiting an adult toys store or even purchasing adult novelties as a gift option. Also start by using very light adult toys like a vibrator so that it doesn’t hurt you even if you are not sure how to use them. Ultimately the idea is simply to spur up sex not have nasty sex.
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